10 wedding ideas that everyone will love

1. Instead of spending days compiling the perfect seating plan, have your guests decide where to go with your own unique way point sign!

sign post

This went down really well with our guests and they loved choosing their own tables and who they wanted to sit with! (Just remember to reserve a table or two for you and your wedding party)

2. Have themed tables! We had Harry Potter:

harry potter table

Lord of the Rings:

lord of the rings table

General Disney:

Disney table

Tangled

tangled table

Matilda the musical:

matilda table

Music theme

music table

and Switzerland theme

swiss train

Not only is it fun for you to come up with decorations, it’s easy too. Especially if you’re a nerd and you already have a bunch of stuff you could display! For example, we put books on every table and I already had everything for the Harry potter table so no need to buy expensive decs.

3. Snacks for your guests. There’s no telling what will happen on your wedding day so it’s always good to be prepared- especially with ample food. It’s a long day and you want your guests to be happy! This doesn’t have to be expensive though- we just went to the local supermarket and bought some sweets that went with the theme of each table!

chocolate violins

chocolate coins

4. Have things for your guests to do! Sometimes waiting around can get boring and your guests might have to wait for you, so if you can, get them something to do! As there are a lot of trains in Switzerland we bought a toy train set for them to play with on their table.

swiss train

Also on the music table we had a music box that guests could play. Awesome decorations they can look at will keep them occupied too!

5. Lighting… With a wedding, it’s easy to miss something like lighting for your hall. Don’t dispair though, this can be really simple and inexpensive! We just got cheap jars in bulk and electric candles to put in them for cute lanterns. I went and painted silhouettes on them to go with our tables themes, here are a few:

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6. Make everything!! Honestly, this is what saved us. We had big ideas but we didn’t want to spend a lot as we have the Monica and Chandler approach of “we don’t have to have a big wedding, all we want is a successful marriage”. However, as I’m an artist, I was able to do a lot of the details and decorations by hand. I made this snuggly duckling sign for our tangled table with the help of my Dad:

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I did the lanterns, drew the Disney castle for the Disney table, me and my husband made and decorated boxes for the Matilda table, I drew the invites and we used snapfish to print them out and we even made our own confetti out of cheap amazon books:

confetti

There are lots of things you can do- on your own or with help- to make your day special and personal!

7. Ask people to help. I mainly asked the people who helped us because I knew they were talented and we wanted our wedding to be very personal. However, if you are running out of money this can help in that area as well. We found the generosity of our friends astounding and working with people you already know is a lot easier. My old boss made our cake, (I’m sorry about the photo, this was the only one I have to hand)

cake!!

one of my Mum’s friends did the flower arranging and made us this super cute ring pillow:

ring pillow

my bridesmaid and husbands Dad did musical items for our ceremony, a good long time friend did our catering, my Dad made the amazing sign which I started this post with (which I painted) and last but not least, without us even asking her to, my Mum’s friend made my wedding dress.

8. Have an interesting guest book. Who wants a plain old guest book? We didn’t!! One of the first things me and my husband did together was play giant jenga, so we had our guests play jenga. If they got a block out successfully, they wrote on one of them, if it fell down it was up to them to set it back up and try again. If you do have a “guest book” like this then remember to write instructions next to it as there won’t always be someone  around to instruct guests on what to do.

jenga guest book

9. This can be for the bride or the groom: add a personal touch to your wedding outfits. Our wedding colours were purple and green to represent our two favourite things at the time: Lord of the rings and Tangled. So, my Husband wore a purple tie and I had green on the stem of my bouquet. I also had flowers in my hair and a Harry Potter necklace that read “mischief managed”. But I think the coolest thing we did was decide that me and my made of honour were to have a home made bouquet. (I did have two mades of honour but sadly there were only enough flowers for one extra bouquet) These were  done out of books and sheet music as we both play an instrument and like to read.

 

bouquets

10. Last but not least, enjoy yourselves!! This one actually gets missed a lot. Yes, you do need to make sure your guests have a great time but is it their wedding? No! It’s yours! So make it the way YOU both want it as well as pleasing your guests. Fight for little touches you know no-one will notice but will make you happy when you see them. Fight for a day plan that makes you satisfied, even if it’s a little strange. Make sure it’s your day! For example, my husband doesn’t dance and although I like to dance, dancing with everyone’s eyes on me makes me really anxious. So guess what? We didn’t have a first dance! Surprise surprise, you don’t have to follow social norms- do what makes you happy. I did end up dancing, but I found that better than having an announced dance that has to last a whole song.

So, there you go. Some simple things for you to have the best day ever! This was a long time coming, we’ve been married about 7 months now but I’ve always wanted to do this as I really enjoyed my wedding and I want as many people out there as possibleto enjoy theirs too 🙂

obsession

Do any of you get incredibly obsessed over some things to the point of having a little intervention inside your own head? Well I do. I do it with just about everything. Some things don’t need an intervention because the obsession isn’t so bad that it’s not going to a) just be a phase and b) not die out for a long time because the whole world likes it too. For example, Harry Potter. The world loves Harry Potter and it’s definitely not going to stop being amazing any time soon, I know it’s not just a phase because I’ve put time and effort into liking it like, reading the books over and over and drawing fanart. Or a place, I love Birmingham but I can’t obsess over a place because I need a free day and money to go there.

That time has come again in which I must have an intervention with myself. I’ve been watching “8 out of 10 cats does countdown” non stop for five days now and in that short space of time, it’s started effecting my life. That’s the reason I didn’t do a post yesterday, I haven’t been drawing or making my costumes for comiccon because I’ve just been so obsessed. I keep telling myself it’s good exercise for my brain because I don’t do any maths and I just write on my computer so I don’t need to know how to spell well, but really I just find the show funny and a means for procrastination. I know in the end if I don’t get my costumes done in time, or I miss loads of blog posts or get really out of sync with drawing that I’ll regret waisting my time watching t.v.

Procrastination was my absolute favourite thing to do when I was in school. I would purposefully do it, with the knowledge of what it would do to my grades, because I just got this weird satisfaction out of it. Now, I hate procrastinating. If I have a really productive day then I feel an amazing sense of achievement. I procrastinate without realising and low and behold, I’ve got to rush to get everything done and the things that I needed to do might not be as good because I didn’t have time to do it properly. You all know my stance on education (if not, I’ll put a tag for education you can click on that will bring you to my blog posts that are about that topic) I’m not fussed with education, I think the education system in this country is a waste of time and we should all move to Finland if we want a decent learning experience. But I’m in “real life” now. Real life, could you believe it, actually matters. Trust me to be terrible at productivity when it’s a crucial aspect of life.

I mean, why do People do it? We watch all these amazing athletes and writers and singers and actors and we all really want to be like them but we’re too busy watching what they’re doing, instead of actually doing something ourselves. So in the end we’re just these people in life who are worried about what sort of bread to buy instead of people who are worried about what to say in their next interview. Some people are perfectly happy with being a fan and nothing more. Some people earn a living from being a fan like fanartists, cosplayers, costume makers and youtubers.

I love the idea that you can now become what is essentially, a professional fan. But it was always my dream to become an artist and now that dream has developed into wanting to be a children’s illustrator and author. If I don’t stop being an obsessive fan, how can I concentrate on fulfilling my own chosen path? So, I do interventions. This blog post has been what I usually say to myself in my head but I thought I’d share it with you guys. I usually always end on the note of “let’s make something new for someone else to enjoy”. I like that and I hope you guys can forgive my procrastination and enjoy some of the new things I make!